Kids don't come
with a manual -- it would be so much easier if they did! One of the common
questions that parents ask is about how to raise happy kids. The term
"happy" means something different for everyone. No child must be a
24/7 Pollyanna (thankfully!), and every kid's temperament is unique. But
parents want the best for their kids and they want them to enjoy life.
Bob Murray, author of Raising An Optimistic Child , and Shirin
Sherkat Psy.D., author, speaker and founder of "Create Happy Kids,"
share their advice on the seven things that will set your children on a path
toward a happy childhood. The seven principals are as follows:
·
Love: Murray says that
bringing up happy, optimistic children begins with loving parents who
demonstrate love for each other and for their children. Tell your kids every
day how much you love them. Be affectionate and free with your hugs, and
encourage your kids to share their emotions too.
·
Time: Offering your time
is another way of showing love. Kids need time with parents. The kids who grow
up the most secure are those who have been given the most parental time. It can
be something simple like having a daily or weekly tradition like reading a bedtime
story or going to get ice cream.
·
Validation and Praise: Children
need their feelings to be heard, respected and validated. Validating a child's
feelings goes a long way in teaching that kid how to identify and manage
emotions as they grow up. Validation and praise go hand-in-hand. Children
should be noticed and rewarded for making good decisions. Kids whose desirable
behaviors and healthy choices [are] often validated and acknowledged by their
parents are more likely to repeat those good decisions and feel more confident
about themselves.
·
Rights: It’s important to
understand the difference between their rights and their privileges. Children
should always feel that their loved ones would protect their rights. And a
'happy kid' is one who is taught that privileges are always earned.
·
Nature: Believe it or not,
when your mother told you to play outside, she knew exactly what she was
talking about. Fresh air and physical activity clear the mind and can
invigorate a child's spirit. In addition, having plants in the home raises the
level of happiness and contributes to a speedier recovery from illness.
·
Limited Exposure to Violence: Kids
shouldn't live in a bubble, but violent or worrisome TV or video games can
create anxiety and stress. Kids need the reassurance that parents can look
after them, that they can protect them.
·
Structure: Children
expect some level of routine and structure from their environment. This creates
a great sense of security and stability in kids, and that is very
important for healthy emotional growth. Setting boundaries is a key factor in
creating that structure.
For more details refer the following link:
https://www.care.com/c/stories/5216/7-tips-for-raising-a-happy-child/
New Born Care
Sneezing
problem in New Born: Sneezing Problems in New Born Babies: Read article on
sneezing problems in new born babies occur due to dry air, irritants, colds and
influenza, allergies, enlarged adenoids, foreign bodies and nasal sprays.
For more details refer the
following link:
http://www.onlymyhealth.com/sneezing-problems-in-new-born-babies-1309155640
Baby Care Emergencies: A child being
naturally curious is more prone to injuries. Take a quick look at what to do
when your baby meets an accident or injury at the oddest hours of the day.
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/baby-care-emergencies-1298540372
Infants in Womb can develop kidney
Dysplasia:: Here’s all about the role of kidneys, each about a size of a
fist, playing a significant role in overall wellbeing and little brief
about kidney dysplasia, often found in infants growing in the womb.
For more details refer the
following link:
http://www.onlymyhealth.com/infants-in-womb-can-develop-kidney-dysplasia-1562935056
What is recommended water intake for
Toddlers: Children
between 1 & 3 years of age should drink about 1.3 liters of water a day.
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/recommended-water-intake-for-toddlers-1582691817
Do babies snore while sleeping: Some babies do snore
while sleeping. Snoring can be a result of common colds, allergies or in some
cases sleep apnea.
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/do-babies-snore-while-sleeping-1305107891
Child Safety checklist: Newborn Care -
What child safety equipment do we really need in our residence? Share this
child safety checklist with anyone and keep your home safe for children.
For more details refer the
following link:
http://www.onlymyhealth.com/child-safety-checklist-1298540459
ABC OF Potty Training: Giving your child
potty training is an important task, after all the nappies need to take off
some day and your little one needs to answer nature's call all by himself! Get
a good insight on how to potty train your child here.
For more details refer the
following link:
http://www.onlymyhealth.com/abc-potty-training-1322646666
Nutritional Advice for Infant and Toddlers: Your infants and
toddlers are dependent on you for their nutritional needs.
Common mistake while using sunscreen: Sun protection doesn't
just mean sunscreen. It also encompasses being out of the sun during peak hours
(10 a.m.-4 p.m.) and wearing hats and sunglasses
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/4-common-sun-protection-mistakes-while-using-sunscreen-1561456590
Natural way to remove your Baby’s body
hair:Worried
about those hair on your baby’s skin? Try these effective remedies to get rid
of them naturally.
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/dear-mommy-try-these-natural-tips-to-remove-your-babys-body-hair-1472203465
Dental care for your kids:Dental care and good
dental hygiene must be a part every child’s daily routine. You should develop
good oral care habits in your kids as soon as possible. Know tips to develop
healthy oral habits in your kids.
For more details refer the
following link:
Onlymyhealth.com/what-few-dental-care-tips-kids
To maintain good colon health in kids:Do you know that a
healthy gut is a foundation for overall good health?
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/children-health-care-tips-to-uphold-good-colon-health-in-kids-1581910740
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome:Newborn Care - The extra
layers of blankets or clothes on your infant during winter may increase the
risk for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS), the sudden, unexplained death of
an infant in the first year of life.
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/sids-risk-up-in-winter-1288077751
Development of baby at 3 months:Development of a baby at
3 months includes lots of changes with regards to his physical and mental
development..
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/baby-development-development-baby-months-1295640929
Secrets of good Hair for Kids:Want your kids to have
nourished and healthy hair? Help yourselves and them to know what is the best
that they can do for amazing hair.
For more details refer the
following link:
https://www.onlymyhealth.com/hair-care-tips-for-kids-1367663709